MAKE ABSTEMIOUS REALISTIC CHOICES AND HABITS

 

Often times when it comes to making big shifts, decisions, choices that might bring a radical change in our lives there is always a choice we make, either to face it head –on or flee, while the latter sound easy and devoid you of any responsibility or heaviness; it may also seem easier, as it spares us from the responsibility or discomfort, but it often traps us in a cycle of stagnation. Fleeing creates a space where progress is suffocated much like gasping for breath in low- oxygen conditions, thus finally forcing you to go for options that might not necessarily be the best suited solutions to your next needed step for growth, but somehow our survival instinct would pick whatever is available.

The question is -WHY DO WE ALWAYS WAIT FOR THE WORST? OR GIVE EXCUSES THAT MAKES THE OTHER OPTION FEEL RIGHT. I mean you know deep down within you, that not going to be beneficial to you or maybe you don’t and your asking, HOW DO I MAKE DESCIONS THAT ARE REALISTICALLY ALLIGNED TO MY PURPOSE OR BENEFICIAL TO MY FUTURE? Here is how to go about it.

Start by creating a picture of what you want your life to be like in 5years, if you’re not good with long term goals or you find yourself in the habit of procrastinating, then start by setting smaller goals for yourself, be it daily, weekly, monthly, then access your commitment and the end result.

Now that you like the changes it created and the self awareness it awakened in you, get back to that board and make it a duty to create that 5 years plan, time flies so fast and believe me 5years can seem like 5weeks if you don’t take control of your life, I am gleeful that march is represented by the aquamarine stone whose essence centers on YOUTH.HOPE.TRUTH. LOYALTY.PURITY, qualities that guide your choices.

There is no realistic habit or choice that has ever been made on a bed of lies that stood the test of time, if you’re not loyal to yourself and hopeful for the future, it means that the wind of life would toss you around till it finally absorbs you. But when you commit to well- grounded decisions, you take control of your life instead of being swayed by uncertainty.

Make a CONCIOUS decision and adopt the qualities of the precious stone, let your decisions be clear, strong and unwavering now that you’re youthful to make abstemious realistic choices and habits that posterity would judge fairly and rely on.