FEIRY SPLENDOUR

 HELLO LOVELIES, I welcome you all to the 10 th month, as we roll the tape down, as we run towards the finish line in the year 2025, I admonish you all not to concentrate on your opponents in this race but to be more mindful of the direction in which your speed leads you to because in as much as speed is good to get to the finish line on time, ending   a race at the wrong finish line sets you back drastically, then you realize that you have not only lost time, strength but also resources. Why are we so much in a hurry? Why does having an opponent matter? What would ending the race quickly bring you? If your speed is being enforced by the wrong reasons, you might never be satisfied even if you come 1 st , but when your speed is built on your personal and fundamental reasons, even with a 10th position your heart will leap for great joy because your only competition is YOU. If having an opponent is not for inspiration and partial emulation, but for competition then you m...

  Often times when it comes to making big shifts, decisions, choices that might bring a radical change in our lives there is always a choice we make, either to face it head –on or flee, while the latter sound easy and devoid you of any responsibility or heaviness; it may also seem easier, as it spares us from the responsibility or discomfort, but it often traps us in a cycle of stagnation. Fleeing creates a space where progress is suffocated much like gasping for breath in low- oxygen conditions, thus finally forcing you to go for options that might not necessarily be the best suited solutions to your next needed step for growth, but somehow our survival instinct would pick whatever is available. The question is -WHY DO WE ALWAYS WAIT FOR THE WORST? OR GIVE EXCUSES THAT MAKES THE OTHER OPTION FEEL RIGHT. I mean you know deep down within you, that not going to be beneficial to you or maybe you don’t and your asking, HOW DO I MAKE DESCIONS THAT ARE REALISTICALLY ALLIGNED TO MY PURP...

 Adults are more likely to find their selves saddled with lots of baggage, you my start out the year or the  project with an intense focus and attention to details, then , suddenly you end up encountering unprecedented bumps on your path and this little distraction, always has the power to deter you from finishing strong. In some other instances you might find yourself in laughable situations that makes you second guess the functionality of your brain; imagine going into a room to get something, then on getting there you completely forget the reason why you came in there in the first place, you pace up and down the room trying to figure out what brought you in and you still quite cant place it, then you go back to the things you were doing and suddenly it feels like a light bulb went on in your head and the ultimate search for the answer you were pacing up and down to get ,has been found.                         ...

    Let me start by saying a happy new year to you all lovelies, as the new year unfolded a lot us walked into this year with a well structured vision board and the excitement that follows being positive about the things you want to achieve, while the latter might have just seen it as yet another day, maybe still beaten down by the fact that they were unable to accomplish all that they set their mind to do in 2024, whatever may be the case, the year has started and the days would keep running and its pace is solely dependent on nature. Last year we adapted the theme of flowers, learning how each month can be tied to nature and how we can easily relate to it in our everyday lives. This year we are focusing our lens on birth stones, so if you’re a lover of the finest jewels and precious stones that are found on earth, then I guess you’re as excited as I am to dig deeper into our similarities with it. In the Middle Ages, people believed that the gemstone could be used to cure t...